Are You My First? Reality Show: Cast, Format, Reviews & What’s Next

Are You My First? is an American reality dating television series that premiered on Hulu on August 18, 2025. The show, described as a “dating experiment,” brings together 21 virgin singles in a tropical paradise to explore love, intimacy, and potentially their first sexual experiences in a judgment-free environment.

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Hosted by The Bachelor franchise alumni Colton Underwood and Kaitlyn Bristowe, the series features romantic dates, revealing challenges, and new love interests as contestants search for meaningful connections.

Produced by ITV America and Plimsoll Productions, the show has garnered attention for its unique premise and its potential to spark discussions about virginity, sexuality, and relationships in modern society.

Format

Are You My First? follows a reality dating format where 21 virgin singles participate in a series of romantic dates and challenges designed to foster emotional and romantic connections. The show is set in a tropical resort, creating a vibrant and relaxed atmosphere for the contestants.

Unlike traditional dating shows, it focuses exclusively on individuals who have chosen to remain virgins for reasons ranging from religious beliefs to personal convictions about waiting for the right partner. The series aims to provide a safe, non-judgmental space for participants to explore intimacy, with the narrative emphasizing both heartfelt and provocative moments.

All 10 episodes of the first season were released simultaneously on Hulu on August 18, 2025, allowing for a binge-watching experience. The show also aired its first episode on ABC on the same day at 10/9c.

Contestants

The first season features 21 contestants, each with distinct backgrounds and reasons for their celibacy. The diverse cast includes individuals from various professions, such as tech sales, dance instruction, and real estate, and their motivations range from religious convictions to personal fears of intimacy. Below is a detailed list of the contestants:

Name	Age	Occupation	Location	Reason for Waiting
Andrew	25	Tech salesman	Salt Lake City, UT	Looking for his first and last soulmate
Brooklyn	24	Dance teacher	Los Angeles, CA	Believes the right person is worth the wait
Carissa	27	Photographer	Long Beach, CA	Holding out for true connection
Deya	28	Small business owner	Fort Lauderdale, FL	Fears intimacy if not lasting
Farha	25	Content creator	Miami, FL	Late bloomer, raised religiously
Godwin	27	Real estate developer	Edison, NJ	Enjoys attention virginity brings, waits for “queen”
Hakeem	27	Voice artist	Atlanta, GA	Aware of risks, decided to wait
Jade	28	NFL cheerleader	New Orleans, LA	Never been in a serious relationship, seeks connection
Jake	32	Caregiver	LA	Deeply devout Christian, waits till marriage
Katya	28	Theatre artist	New York	Believes sex is power, wants intentional timing
Krash	24	Social media manager	Miami, FL	Strict upbringing, knows importance of waiting
Layne	24	Commercial pilot	Hammond, OK	Never had a serious girlfriend, wants first to be special
Madi	28	Marketing manager	Austin, TX	Fear of intimacy, waiting for true love
Michael	26	Tour guide, comedian	Austin, TX	Dealing with fear of intimacy, wants to tackle it first
Mike	34	Gym owner, Bachelor alum	San Diego, CA	Religious inclination inspired waiting
Noah	25	Business owner	San Clemente, CA	Plans to wait for intimacy till marriage
Rachel	30	Cocktail waitress	Tampa, FL	Navigating health issue before intimacy
Sara	28	Student	San Diego	Prioritized studies, holding out for true love
Spencer	25	Solar salesman	Boise, ID	Waiting for meaningful connection before intimacy
Ty	25	Web developer	Provo, UT	Chose celibacy before marriage due to religion
Vivek	23	Financial accountant	Los Angeles, CA	Wants first moment with someone he can trust

Production

Producers

The series is produced by ITV America and Plimsoll Productions, both known for their work on Love Island USA. The executive producers include Peter Geist, David George, Adam Sher, Simon Thomas, James Barker, Grant Mansfield, Karen Plumb, and Alan Eyres. The co-executive producers are German Abarca and Kendall Elrod.

This experienced production team brings a wealth of expertise in crafting engaging reality television content.

Directors

As is common with reality television, Are You My First? does not credit specific directors in the same way scripted series do. The executive producers and production team oversee the creative and logistical aspects of the show, guiding its narrative and visual style.

Timeline

Premiere Date: August 18, 2025
Number of Episodes: 10 (all released on premiere day)
Seasons: 1 (as of August 5, 2025)
Broadcast: The series is available to stream on Hulu in the United States, with subscription plans at $9.99/month or $99.99/year (ad-supported) and $18.99/month (ad-free). The first episode also aired on ABC on August 18, 2025, at 10/9c. Internationally, the show is available on Disney+.

Reception

As of August 5, 2025, Are You My First? has not yet premiered, so formal reviews are not available. However, the show’s unique premise has generated early buzz, with some outlets describing it as a bold and potentially awkward experiment in reality television.

For instance, IMDb noted that it could be “Hulu’s most awkward dating show yet” but also praised its aim to create a safe space for exploring romantic and sexual relationships. Online discussions, such as on Reddit, have expressed mixed sentiments, with some users criticizing the premise as potentially exploitative or questioning its alignment with conservative trends in entertainment.

Others anticipate it will generate significant viewership due to its provocative concept and the involvement of well-known hosts and producers. The show is expected to spark conversations about virginity, societal stigma, and the intersection of romance and intimacy, particularly given the diverse reasons behind the contestants’ choices.

Future Prospects

With the show having premiered recently, no official announcements regarding additional seasons or spin-offs have been made as of August 5, 2025. However, the success of the first season could lead to further exploration of similar themes or formats, given the production team’s track record with Love Island USA.

The show’s focus on a niche aspect of dating may resonate with audiences seeking fresh perspectives in the reality TV genre, potentially leading to broader cultural discussions on social media and beyond. If viewership is strong, Hulu may consider renewing the series or developing related concepts that explore unique dating dynamics.